Wednesday, February 29, 2012
What has happened to boys these days? Us girls dreamed about our prince charming, being tall, dark, and handsome. A man with manors and a good heart to sweep us off our feet. Now, it seems like "prince charming" is more obsessed with being tall, dark, and handsome, completely forgetting about the manors and good heart part of the package. Being "dark" is new obsession and is going to be a leading cause for skin cancer. When did it become okay for guys to go tanning? It's a little to girly for me. Just because Jersey Shore made this a new obsession for most guys, doesn't make it okay. Is anything they really do on that show okay?( don't get me wrong still a fan for trash TV, but come on!). Half of the guys I know are more obsessed with looking good then I am, and I'm a female. Who cares how many Nike shoes you have, what brand your jacket is, and who stole your outfit. I'm allowed to worry about that not boys. It seems like most guys are turning into douche-bag, v-neck wearing, players! Do we really need more of those? Personally I'm looking for a MAN! A good guy with a good heart, and something in between. Maybe its just a high school trend that will end soon!
Thursday, February 23, 2012
So lets address the topic of honesty when it comes to relationships. Now I'm not just talking about a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, but that pre-relationship/ "talking" phase you go through before you hit that point. You "talking" to someone is getting to know that person and vice versa, so why would you put up a front and not be yourself? What is there to lose? Now a days its all about who plays the game the best, and its kind of sickening to think about. Not only is it hard for most teenagers to be honest with someone, but to be honest with themselves. You not being honest with yourself just equals someone getting hurt and allot of wasted time. If you have chemistry with someone, you know it from the beginning, so go with your gut and try things out. Why are teenagers so scared to do this? Life is about losing some and gaining some, and how are you suppose to know what you want in a relationship if your to scared to try one out? So lets get "real" and just be you from the beginning. Don't worry about looking lame for texting the person you like first and adding that extra smiley face because your scared you look desperate. Just be honest with yourself and don't be scared! It all pays off at the end.